SUITORS NOW PREFER OUR MAIDS TO OUR DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE

SUITORS NOW PREFER OUR MAIDS TO OUR DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE Why not? When we devote time in training the maids on how to cook well, how to clean the house and on good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters untrained. We overwork the maids  and they adjust with equanimity because they need us to survive….

Zina is one of the most heinous and deadliest of sins

salam!  zina is one of the most heinous and deadliest of sins. its enormity can be gauged from the fact that it has often been conjoined in the qur’an with the gravest of all sins like shirk. the enormity of this sin is no small measure due to its dire consequences affecting individuals, families, and communties….

Let’s be mindful of our deeds

Assalam Alaikum. Firstly I wish to commend U for the incredible job you are doing. Even better is the manner you have kept doing it in a mostly halal manner. May Allah forgive you your shortcomings while continuing to bless ur life and work. I have read a couple of ur latest posts on immorality…

I’m in a dilemma. 

  Assalamu alaikum, sis I’m in a dilemma. I’m in a relationship with a girl that I informed of my medical condition (lumbar stenosis), Ciwon baya. Kuma tace Eh taji ta amince cewa tana so na. I then insisted dat sai tagayawa parents dinta to take an enlightened decision. They all agreed cewa babu matsala….

Surah Duha & struggling with low mood & depression 

Surah Duha & struggling with low mood & depression  Most of us know this Surah by heart. It was revealed to the Prophet (peace be upon him) at a time when he had not received any revelation for six months. He was in a very disturbed state of mind, feeling negative and depressed and believing…

Happily married for 12 years

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabaraka tuhu Open diaries. My story goes thus: I was not the outgoing type I didn’t  like attending weddings or large functions but faith took me to a family friends wedding the very first wedding outside my immediate family. It was fun traveling to the brides village a small cozy place, Umaisha…

Who do you choose?

I got a call from a number i didn’t know. When i asked who it was he said his name and told me he was calling from Kaduna. At that time i knew only a few families from Kaduna not one has a grown man in the marriageable age i disconnected telling him it was…

I met my husband on TANGO.

 In July 2014, I met my husband on TANGO. I used to look down on online dating a little bit-at least for myself, because somehow it didn’t seem real. In June 2014, I decided to join Tango n for d first few weeks I had a lot of friend requests n chats dat I didn’t…

MY HUSBAND IS A NICE MAN. 

I never knew real men of their words still exist until I married my husband.  He is an Islamic preacher and a graduate of a Nigerian university with a difference.  He used to come for our Annual Islamic programme on invitation from our organizers.  I used to like him for his preachings but never gave…

The rate of divorce these days is alarming

 Assalam Alaikum. Hello everyone and Alhamdulillah for this platform. May Allah bless you and the readers. Ok so the rate of divorce these days is alarming don’t you think? I mean it seems like a substantial amount of unions don’t last an anniversary these days, why?. Lies. The reason why many marriages are shakey these…

Women of nowadays do not know their worth

 As Salam. Peace be unto open diaries and to us all. Ladies please listen to me. I think it is in this 21st that we need to be extra careful. I’ve racked my brain and I still cannot for the life of me find a reason why we think the western style of dating is…

You can’t be married and be thinking like your single friends

A little advice to my fellow readers of your page,I think we should come back to reality and understand that things are not they way they used to be,so much has changed that its just “home training “that keeps us going,for the fact that relationships leads to immoral behaviours, one would be scared getting into…